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1月22日

Chinese New Year

7th February, is Chinese Spring Festival, this year is rat year. People like the year for rats, because rats can steal lots of things, it does not hurt people too, so people like rats year, it means this year is gentle, soft and also not lacks of money and food-- hehe--
 
In China, different years animals might conflict with other years. For example, the people who were born in the year of monkey, does not like the people who were born in the year of chicken, they will always argue. two people who were born both in tigar years, they had better keep a little distance. Another, people who were born in chicken's year had better not always get along with the people from dog's year. Also, girls had better avoid the year of Sheep, because old people always said the girls who were born in the sheep year are bad luck for at least one thing: healthy, marriage, love, friendship or families, or career--  Girls who were born in monkey's year is nice, so one of my girlfriend, she was born at end of the sheep year, but her father let her ID is monkey's year. He said:" I would like my little girl to be a happy and naughty monkey but not a sheep." You must feel very suprise for all these things, right--- hehe-- but this girl really does not have a good life, her dad died 3 or 4 years ago, she married a boy she does not love at all, her career is not good too. However, we did not see each other too long time, I just knew these-- Well, do not believe it too much, it is just a little part of Chinese culture, most Chinese people do not mind about it at all. 
 
On the eve of the spring festival, we always about lunch time, began to put blessing papers on the gate or door, and red lights in Chinese traditional lantern. About 5 or 6pm, we began to have supper which will be prepared for long time, or recently we just booked the restaurant and eat outside, whole families about 20 people or a little more. About 8pm, we went back one people's home and watch TV new year party together, but we play MaJiang, and cards, have snacks, and kis play together, some good skilled cooking people will stay in the kitchen and cook dumplings and put some cleaned coins into dumplings, also some dishes as while. 12am, we make fireworks, we celebrate and put all the dumplings into the boiled water, then we have another meal together, the people who can eat coins means next year will have good luck for money. After this meal, all the people go back home and rest. Some people will not sleep for whole night. Next morning, we got up about 6 am or 7am, I always go to my grandma's home ( on my father's side) go to have
dumplings, about 7am we make another fireworks again. I scare fireworks, now BeiJing forbidden for fireworks, so lots of BeiJing people drive their car and go to Tian Jing for play fireworks, in Chinese mind, without firework, that is not Chinese spring festival, but to me it is ok, because I scare fireworks   After meal, we will always  visit relatives and get red pack ( money) from older generation, but now I am older and I become the people who give red pack but not accept any more  However, it is still a happy thing  when I was little, I always accept red pack and say some blessing words, then save my money for something I like, but when I get older, my mum always told me:" ok, you are the member of our family, so you should put the money for our family account. hehe--  I had no way, leave little mount, then put the money into the family account.
 
Chinese new year will last totally 15 days, during this period, nearlly everyday, relatives will invite you to have meal, of course you will invite them too, we book the different dates to different people. Classmates( my high school classmates), friends--- all will stay together and have meal and talk and laugh and play, also take pictures--  The important days for Chinese new years are The even of Chinese new year, the first day of Chinese new year, the second day of Chinese new year  and the last day( 15th day) of the Chinese new year. All these days, all the families should stay together and celebrate together-- For the last day of the Chinese new year, we will have Tang Yuan, round and sweet balls, we boiled them and have together, it means all the families would be together always--
 
I like Chinese new year, but I did not passed for 4 years with my families, I miss that feel very much. This year, I still can not pass with them, some Chinese and singpore and Korean friends in Ireland invite me to celebrate together for the new year. Because all these countries have the same new year of China but not so traditional.  No matter what, dumplings are important to Chinese (  :
 
1月21日

another week is passing

time is flying, everyday is so quickly to pass-- this week we have finished one day, now it is the time for going back home-- but I still stay in the office and write my blog-- suddenly think about 10 years ago, at that time, I first likes a boy, he is so handsome and tall, smart and good temper-- but now we are in the different world-- his parents, I do not know how long they can be patient the sadness-- he is a so good boy-- still remember his smile and words, I wrote lots of diaries for him-- hehe-- pure love-- still remember the night he sent me home, the white snow-- 10 years, passed so quickly-- now, another week is passing-- maybe 10 years later, I began to remember now-- so let me to enjoy current time.
1月17日

I always tell myself

I always tell myself to have strong will, to anything-- However, I am just a little girl, with a quick temper and a soft heart-- I have no idea at all how long I will insist in the strange and lonly circumstance. I will have strong will to everything, except love, friendship and family. but I am always hurt by one of them. Work is fine, the company is so nice, everyone is so sweet, every morning I go to office just as going back home-- very relax, very comfortable. I have never treated it as a work place but a home-- sometimes I like working overtime, because that is much better than staying at home lonly--- I thank his appear and companying, but how long? I have no idea-- on the way to marriage, I am too picky, and the love is too hard to continue by different kinds of reasons--
1月14日

every morning

Every morning, when I open my eyes, the first feel is not happy or sleepy, but lonly-- I do not know how long the lonliness would company me. Sometimes I even thought if the Irish weather controls my feel. Now I still doubt, however, maybe the lonliness comes from my deeply heart, no matter where I am. China is different, when I stay with my mum, the lonliness will disappear so soon. When I stay in my hometown, my feel is so special, warm and relax. 4 years I did not stay in China-- so long time-- where is my future? Where is my home?

before and after

This Saturday I got up very late and really enjoy the moment staying on the bed--- at that time I tought:' lf I do not demand too much, life is just food and sleep, of course, some work and funny things as while." Before having love, I hope I could have a person who can company me and treat me well, who can spoil me and think about the future, who can go to cinema with me together. However, after getting it, I suddenly scare to lose my freedom, I suddenly found go to cinema myself is an enjoyable thing, about marriage, suddenly feel a little scared, baby? no, have not prepared yet. I am still a little girl, how can I accept these? People always demand so much from reality, it is very hard to satisfy--
1月9日

world is so beautiful

I smile for the blue sky, the pretty flower, the sunshine and nice food--
 
The world is so beautiful, please hold my hand, promise me the whole life and sing a song to me--
 
The world is so beautiful, when I taste a fruit candy, when I have a nice dream, when I read a nice novel---
 
Happiness is all around us, feel the world by our heart--- lightly-- lightly--- lightly--
 

Christmas holiday in Florida US

Florida is so pretty and the sea in Miami is so blue-- after enjoying the seaside of Miami, I finally know the sea in Ireland is so poor, even in China, the sea is not pretty enough-- I also passed a traditional American Christmas, really very happy time. I like Florida, but it is not suit for working, holiday is better.

pass the test for driving

28th Janary 2008, I will pass the test for driving, then in Feb I will study how to drive. Yes, still not knowing how to drive is a little shame, but I have no chance to use car at all (  : However, there is a goal is better, feel happier-- what I scare most is that in my life there is no goal--